Hear me out.  You can take this as a feel sorry for Kristi speech or whatever you want.  I can already picture  your first reaction.
somehow you can make me feel guilty that i would like for you to come by and see me during the softball game.  Every day i take Christopher to karate which takes up 2-2.5 hours, i cook dinner, buy school supplies, take and pick up cleaning, clean up as much as i have time to do, try to work out, and visit a friend that i haven't seen in a month who really wants me to meet the guy she is in love with.  I would love to come home and watch t.v. like you do.  I know you are doing things around the house and play an important role in getting the kids up in the morning.  I haven't played softball in a long time, and this is a good way for me to get to know the people that i work with.  tonight is the last game, i want you to come by to say hi, maybe have one beer, and you say you don't want to you are going to see a movie.    that crushes me even more.  I am doing one thing for myself and you make me feel guilty.  between all that has gone on these past few weeks, i know that i am a little sensitive.  I think all things considered anf the amount of sleep that i have gotten i've done pretty well.  i gotta go the bell rang

kristi