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I grew up in Westlake, Ohio -- A suburb of Cleveland Ohio, a much maligned city. It was a suburb much like any other suburb, so I will leave it at that.
Though my life is not profoundly interesting, a number of times in my life can be classified as defining moments of me and my personality. Those who know me may ask, "Was Steve always a Computer Geek?" The answer can only be yes. So, I suppose my first defining moment must go to early grade school when my aunt bought me my first computer -- a TI-99/4A. The rest of my computing nature is self-evident. Also, I can not neglect to mention my years in Geek Training that have been influential (Geek/Training -- a.k.a G/T, "Gifted & Talented)
My grade school years, through junior high are much a blur. The end of junior high and my years through high school also mark a defining moment for me, when I met my first love. Those who know the story, also know why it was quite influential in my attitudes and beliefs. I do miss her influence in my life quite a bit, and am still learning how to get around the world without her.
The transition time between high-school and college was also a very turbulent time, and I am glad to have met a completely different group of friends at this time, especially one -- Vicki Fairchild. She was very special to me, and at times I felt as if our souls were intertwined somehow. Unfortunately, a repeating pattern in my life is that such strong close friendships seem to dissolve rather quickly, rather unexplainably and with much pain. "I Will Remember You", Vicki... I hope you have dealt with our distance better than I.
The latest of my defining moments have occurred at Hiram College. I know a different person I would have been, without the influence of Henry Hall (or should that be Herny?), my dorm. I know it sounds odd that a building would have much influence, but it, and the people it attracted, definitely did. It was a 24-hour quiet, dry dorm, which conjures up images of uptight people living in a morgue. However, it was nothing at all like that. Because of the residents' aversion to heavy drinking and the rural nature of Hiram, amusements and diversions other than the ordinary had to be created. Some of the stranger moments were Toilet Paper Fights, Pit Soccer, and Salt-Ball. The huge, often approaching violent, tickle fights and the wild Power Outages deserve a mention also. However, the most important part of Henry Hall, the most special, was the almost living Henry Lounge. There is a quiet kind of magic about the Lounge. This was a gathering place for a large group of the residents of Henry... a simple apparently mundane TV lounge. However, it went way beyond a place to watch TV. True, the only time the TV was off was in the aforementioned power outages, but generally people weren't there to watch TV. It became a community. A microcosm of society perhaps, but a society that generally worked well. You see, you could always count on someone being in the lounge. Someone you could talk to, vent to, or merely be with -- whether you knew them or not. Conversation always ranged between deep serious discussions and frivolous oddball talks. Many a philosophical and intellectual discussion has occurred there, including the nature of people, to ghosts, to logic & emotion, to the post-Frankenstein brain argument. Not always was the conversation pleasant, often it was also discussing betrayal of friendship, and resistance of change, as well as griping against the administration or classes. Other negative aspects, such as the "Viper Crew" that we all are part of in some way or another, also manifested. Emotions were often high, in both ways -- healthy and unhealthy. Generally, however, the Lounge shaped and adapted most people. Because of its strange and eclectic nature, it is the first place in many people's lives where they can truly be themselves without fear -- that is an unusually unique thing, and perhaps the most important. Often people did not know who they really are until the Lounge -- they have the freedom to explore themselves, their personality, and their beliefs in the shadow of Lucifer, the candy machine. Every year the lounge was different, but still held the magic. Change is inevitable, but I hope that Henry lounge will never lose its persistence and its life.
There have been many people from Henry that have meant very much to me -- you know who you are! I hope to remain in contact with all of you. Dan Toth deserves a special note, because he was not from Henry -- sometime I wonder if he and I are actually one person in some alternate universe somewhere.
Finally, I come to my girlfriend Betsy. I hope to add here in the future a picture of her, and perhaps have her add some information about herself. We have been dating since the Winter of 94-95 -- things are going well between us, even through the painful distance between Hiram and Rochester. Hopefully, we will be together again soon.
Many important people and events I have left out, for I did not feel like writing an autobiography at this time. I do however feel like mentioning my early friend Tony Skelley, and people I have known and stayed in contact with since grade school -- Sean Lehlbach and Charlotte Lee.
(By the way, I hope you Henry people like this background and feel this is more interesting than before... I know I'll hear about it, if otherwise... *smile* )
(Some more information about me to be included at a future date, such as musical interests, fantasy-sci/fi favorites, and other such things -- be patient!)
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